It's important to make sure you don't allow your relationship with your significant other to distract you from your relationship with God. Don't allow this person to come into your life and take away your attention from God.
When you hurt a woman, you need to reflect on what is it that you did to her. Is her long term pain worth your temporary pleasure? Is her self-doubt of finding true love worth your high fives from your “bros” in the locker room for getting some?